What should I do? I feel like she will continue to ask me for the massager and potentially use it for sexual pleasure. I told her that she needed to take it easy and that the massager should only be used on sore muscles. Last night she told me that she had used it on her genitals and that they were swollen and hurt. I don’t have any problem with her discovering her sexuality, but it seems awkward and inappropriate that she is using the instrument that I use. I just discovered she is also experimenting with it on her genitals. Recently, this back massager has been disappearing into my daughter’s room, where she says she uses it to massage her muscles. In fact, I use it during sex with my husband and for masturbation. I told her that it was for massaging sore muscles and this is, indeed, the way this massager is marketed. Submit your questions and comments here before or during the live discussion.Ī few years ago my now 11-year-old daughter found the “back massager” stowed under my bed. Got a burning question for Prudie? She’ll be online here on Slate to chat with readers each Monday at noon. Please send your questions for publication to. Get Dear Prudence delivered to your inbox each week click here to sign up.
